@tttddd （挺喜欢这句话的也就查了下，是
“Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him.”
― Aldous Huxley, Texts and Pretexts: An Anthology With Commentaries
这是个诗选评注，应该是Huxley对诗人和诗人经历的看法xxxx